Hello! And, Welcome to my blog. Who am I? I am first and foremost a father of a beautiful daughter. Beyond that I run out of words. I used to be many things. Now it is all I can do to just be a sometime father to my child. The courts only let me be a sometime dad to my own daughter It was a constant battle to be a part of my childs life before she turned 18.
This is a struggle that tens of millions of other non-custodial parents battle with every day. The vast majority of these parents, mostly men but increasing numbers of women, did nothing wrong. They are victims of new income streams of Federal Money bribing States to destroy their own citizens.
Most of these parents were first victimized by ‘no fault’ divorce. Then they were victimized by loss of ready access to their own children. Followed by crushing child support debts that are enforced with guns and jail from a divorce where they were declared innocent of any fault. This is only the beginning. The abuses keep on building up. After a while, all we can focus on is the simple and most important fact we are a parent and if we are to survive, all we can focus upon is that fact. We are allowed nothing else and for some, we are not even allowed that.
Now, I am only a loving father of a beautiful daughter. I have to focus on that and my faith or I will lose my way in the battles and abuses and heavy hits. This is what has helped me to survive 17 years of corrupt courts, unethical attorneys, and sold out mental health workers.
As a loving father, I believe I need to protect my child from the hazards today as well as to leave her hope for family, children and a life-long marriage. To accomplish this it is necessary to address the many issues surrounding our runaway courts and the rabid misandry of our legislatures that has turned to abuse of all parents irrespective of gender.
I would rather be with my daughter shopping for books, playing tennis, visiting college campuses, or taking her to Disneyworld or on ski trips. Instead, I am left battling to keep her safe from convicted and admitted child abuser; be a part of her very important life; and still be able to eat and keep a roof over my head.
The above sounds so trite and empty when I read it back. But it has been the most difficult period of my life. And there are tens of millions of us who understand one another as only survivors of a common battle or tragedy can understand one another without words.
I hope my articles, expose’s, rants, and ramblings provide either support or useful information to those who struggle against the current abuses by our own courts and governments.
Thanks for stopping by and God Bless
The Patriot Dad